Motherhood is not something to Perform.
Dubai, UAE
Motherhood is not something to Perform.
I did not come to this work through certainty.
I came through listening.
Through becoming a mother and realizing that motherhood was not adding something to my life — it was undoing me.
It was stripping away identities, expectations, and inherited stories I did not choose.
It was asking me to sit with my shadows instead of bypassing them.
It was asking me to feel.
Birth of a Mother was written from that place.
Not as instruction.
Not as advice.
But as testimony.
It is the record of what happens when a woman stops trying to be who she is supposed to be and begins remembering who she is beneath the roles.
I am a birth doula, educator, and guide for women and couples navigating pregnancy, birth, and the long arc of motherhood.
But more than that, I am a witness.
I sit with women as they cross thresholds — not to lead them, but to help them hear themselves more clearly.
I work slowly.
I listen deeply.
I trust the intelligence of the body and the wisdom that emerges when it is not rushed or overridden.
My approach is informed by:
I believe that birth is not just about how a baby arrives — it is about how a woman is met while she is becoming someone new.
Motherhood is not a performance.
It is a reckoning.
Our children do not arrive to complete us — they arrive to teach us.
They reflect our unhealed places, our tenderness, our capacity to love without control.
In Birth of a Mother, I write about grief, rage, softness, and truth — because these belong in the conversation about motherhood.
So does pleasure.
So does power.
So does rest.
I believe:
I support women and couples who want to move through pregnancy and birth with integrity — not perfection.
Those who want to feel held rather than managed.
Seen rather than directed.
Respected rather than rushed.
My role is not to take over.
It is to create enough safety for you to return to yourself.
If you are here, you are not lost.
You may be tired.
You may be questioning everything you thought you knew.
You may be standing at the edge of a becoming you cannot yet name.
This work exists for you.
Not to tell you who to be —
but to remind you that you already know.
I do this work because I have lived what happens when a woman is expected to be strong before she is allowed to be held.
Because I have felt the quiet violence of being rushed through moments that required slowness.
Because I know how easily a woman’s inner knowing can be overridden — not through cruelty, but through urgency.
Motherhood taught me that transformation does not ask for mastery.
It asks for surrender.
When I became a mother, I did not simply gain a child — I lost versions of myself I thought I needed to survive.
I met grief, rage, tenderness, and love that had no clear edges.
I learned that our children are not here to make us better — they are here to make us truer.
I do this work because birth is one of the few places where a woman’s body, psyche, spirit, and history meet all at once.
And because how she is met in that moment echoes long after the birth itself.
I have seen what happens when a woman feels safe enough to soften.
When she is not managed or corrected, but listened to.
When restraint is offered instead of control.
When presence replaces performance.
This work is my vow.
To wait.
To listen longer than is comfortable.
To trust the wisdom that emerges when nothing is forced.
I do not do this work to produce outcomes.
I do it to protect the conditions in which a woman can remember herself.
That is where real transformation begins.
Birth is not something to be managed.
Dubai - Ajman - Abu Dhabi
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